Wildflower Bed And Breakfast

Sex - such a little word yet it causes huge problems in relationships. The funny thing is that making love actually makes you want to do it more often. The physical act releases certain brain chemicals. Do it often enough and your body actually begins to crave these hormones.

But sex is often the first thing that a woman gives up on when she is feeling irritated or annoyed by her partner. He may not have done anything obvious. In fact it is often the little things that cause us to go off him. Perhaps he doesn't cuddle you without expecting it to lead to sex. Some of the relationship experts say that the best way to get a woman to make love more is to help out more around the home. And I guess if we are honest it is true. We often use sex as a reward for good behavior.

When you live together and making love is on tap so to speak, you don't need to make as much effort as you used to when you were first dating. If you're finding it's all getting a little bit boring, why don't you try taking the initiative for a change?

Why not invite your partner to a date night? Both of you have to pretend that you are dating so get dressed up in some nice clothes (including underwear!) and go out and have some fun. Or have a nice dinner at home with candles and flowers. Turn on the heat during the day by sending him a couple of flirty texts or naughty messages. You may have to fake it initially but eventually the faking will turn into reality.

Фокус on building the attraction. You could ban actual penetration for a fortnight but every night one or both of you has to do something to please the other partner i.e. a sensual massage, oral sex, watch a movie etc. You could take it in turns reading erotic literature to each other.

Teasing each other in this way will help to reawaken the sexual urges but also to discover additional bedtime moves rather than getting stuck in a rut. When you make love to the same person for any length of time, you can become lazy and predictable. Get flirty and play sexy games. Throw out the flannel nightclothes and dig out the sexy underwear. Pretend that this is a man you have just met and let your imagination reignite those flames of desire.

Got a problem you need help with? Rachel Goodchild, modern day agony aunt might be able to help! Pop along to her website mywork.name/loans/go/go.php?sid=1.askrachel.nz] for all things sex, dating, love and relationships related. Rachel is a frequent guest on television and radio, advising on all things relationships, and the author of Eighty Eight Dates, a book on internet dating.