Mayflower Ship Com

If you've done all your prep work for your proposal, then it's time to schedule that date with your beloved. It's time: The Question, Please!

Knowing that you've done all you can do to get ready, you've rehearsed and rechecked and changed your shirt because you got nervous, take a just a second and think about how truly remarkable this all is. You've found this unbelievable woman and here you go.

Pick up your beloved: If you can make it happen, invent an errand, and come back and pick her up, just like you did when you first started dating. Get yourselves to wherever you want to be when you ask her to marry you. (Be sure not to meet her here, because you're going to want to be together going home. No sense being separated for an instant on a day like this!) Create the moment: Set out the candles, the ring box, the wine, the flowers. Enjoy watching her eyes grow big. Tell her why she's important to you: Give her the list of all the things that мейд you think that spending the rest of your life with her would be a good idea. Ask your question: Make sure that you ask question. Don't hint around, don't be flowery, let the words "Will You Marry me" and then, whatever you want to add after that, flow out of your mouth. Wait for her answer. Offer your ring: I always think that even if you haven't picked THE Ring, it's a good idea to have a place holder. Something fun and silly that she can wear until you go ring shopping. And again, ask the question: "Will you wear my ring?" Help her put it on. Celebrate like a house afire: You don't need my advice here! But make it wonderful! Decide whether or not you want to call people: If you can, keep the excitement between the two of you. Take pictures, but cuddle and coo and giggle and enjoy this moment. Then when you get home call your families and your best friends. Even if you've told people that you're going to propose, this is between the two of you! Your public can wait! Celebrate some more! Sit at home and let this sink in. You're getting married! Tell her how you prepared for the proposal so she knows how hard you worked to set up this date. Tell her how nervous you are and how much it means to marry her. Ask her why she's going to marry you. Do what couples do who are wildly in love. Now, you've got a great story to tell your friends and to include in your wedding ceremony. You've exchanged your reasons for marrying, include them in your wedding vows. And you have a wonderful memory to live on for ever. Be happy together for the rest of your life!

Bottom Line?: Give your relationship the chance it deserves to succeed wildly, against all odds! After all, you deserve it. Your relationship deserves it! And now I'd like to invite you to sign up to receive 2 free templates for creating the wedding ceremony of your dreams, the wedding vows of your heart and the marriage of a lifetime:

The Rev. Ann Keeler Evans - helping you move from "I do" to happily and healthily ever after!