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How Do I Get Back With My Girlfriend?

It is not uncommon for many of us to have broken up with the woman of our dreams, and are then faced with the dire question, "How do I get back with my girlfriend?" Outlined below are a few tips on how to make up with your girlfriend, and a bit of advice on whether or not you actually should.

Step 1: Acknowledge the issue at хэнд. Pinpoint exactly what the falling out was about? Was it a mistake on your part, or was it merely a misunderstanding. This needs to be addressed first and foremost. Until you can face the issues, there will be little hope of recouping the situation.

Step 2: If the problem was with you, then decide whether or not you are willing to make a change. If you are willing to make a change, then you have to make an honest attempt to. Consult a counselor to decide whether or not her demands of you are warranted. Sometimes a third party has an easier time sorting through the complicated dynamics of a relationship.

Step 3: Apologize, but do not appear to obsess over your ex. In some women's eyes this is a sign of weakness, and most women prefer their men to be strong. Sending a card or flowers, and an open invitation to have a conversation, or dinner, is a nice gesture, but do not go overboard.

Step 4: If your advances are declined, appear to have moved on. Some women don't realize how intense their feelings are, until they come face to face with competition. You might even consider not answering her calls for a while...and then call her out of the blue -as a friend- and ask her how she is doing.

Step 5: Go to work, hang out with friends, chit-chat with strangers at Starbucks, and keep a positive attitude. Just because you've broken up with your ex, does not mean that life has ended -no matter how much it might feel that way. A brighter outlook makes you appear strong, even if you still feel like crying on the inside.

Step 6: Better yourself. Take a class, go to the gym, get a haircut, eat healthfully, and develop a more positive approach to life. Most women are attracted to healthy men who have a lot to offer. If you want to get your girlfriend back, you must have a marketable asset...and that would be a better you.

Step 7: Give her time. You might discover that you needed this time as much as she did. You might both have soul searching to do. When couples split up, it's not always because one person is viewed as defective. Sometimes it might just be that your ex is broadening her perspective and trying to decide if she is taking the correct path in life.

Step 8: If you do successfully make up with your girlfriend, don't resort back to your old ways. The most successful relationships are based on honesty, loyalty, and mutual respect. If you love her enough to change, and you are comfortable with that change, then it must become a part of who you are, and not just a ruse.

Step 9: Another thing to consider, when and if you get your girlfriend back, is whether or not the changes you make are warranted. If she is uncompromising, selfish and self-serving, it might not be worth the change. Sometimes the flaws that others find in us are not actually flaws, but important parts of our personality that they cannot accept. Be true to yourself if you want true love.

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