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When it comes to wedding gifts, a good rule of thumb is, never give something you wouldn't also love to receive.

Certain items would be welcome in virtually any home, whatever the decor. Here's a partial list:

l. A great lamp. Statistically, eight out of ten US homes are under supplied with lamps. Your very welcome gift could be an affordable table lamp from Ikea that is midnight blue, or black or maroon from the top of its shade to the base of its bottom- or an artsy Tizio lamp, that leggy metal elbow light that is right in any kind of room- or an adjustable apothecary-style floor lamp that can stand quietly beside or behind a chair or sofa, giving perfect reading light. There is lots of room for personal expression in this category and your wedding gift will enjoy some serious longevity.

2. A framed mirror. Based on your knowledge of the couple, you might choose a sleek, classic gilt frame with minimal detailing, or an ornate Rococo frame. The new-age color of preference for weddings is silver or pewter. For lovers of country, go with an antique pine window frame mirror. The point is, this is a piece that can be hung in any room of a new house - from the foyer to the dining room to bedrooms to a hallway.

3. A wonderful vase. Pay attention to the shape of vases because it controls whether flowers will stand tall or droop gracefully. A wedding gift vase will be brought out hundreds of times over the years, usually on other happy or celebratory occasions.

4. A coat tree. There are many wonderful antique hall trees to be found, as well as contemporary pieces. These useful wedding gifts can be used to hold towels in a good-sized bathroom, or coats in a closet-less hall. They are also versatile enough to be used for belts, scarves or ties in the bedroom. You really can't go wrong.

5. Small tables or benches. For inspiration here, look in a catalogue or store. There's hardly a home that couldn't do with a graceful demilune table or console. Again, it's a piece that can travel from dining room to foyer to a bedroom, or even to the bath. If you're not sure about the mahogany finish, choose a more neutral glass and iron table, or a painted country look.

An upholstered bench makes a great front hall piece (paired with the leggy console), or can stand at the foot of the bed, at the dressing table vanity, or in an awkward corner of a living room. If you're not sure about the fabric, give it with plain muslin.

Why not fill a case with a variety of fabulous wines and present it with a pair of glasses or candlesticks? Give an artsy CD storage unit, or a boom box to listen to while painting your room. Other wedding gift ideas include: funky bar stools for a kitchen island- a series of rectangular storage baskets with leather handles- a gorgeous silk 'tree' or folding screen for a bare corner - you get the idea.

Finally, do a little research, ask a few questions, and then go make a statement. The newlyweds will appreciate your thoughtfulness for years to come.

L Hayes is a wedding professional and owner of Wedding Favors Emporium. They carry an extensive line of unique as well as bridesmaids gifts, , and bridal shower gifts. For more information about wedding planning and wedding reception ideas, visit their website at: Emporium