Silk Flower Leaves

Lately, sex has been getting a bad rap. Surfing the net, you see all kinds of top 10 lists slandering sex - i.e. "Top 10 reasons Why Sleep is Preffered Over Sex", "Top 10 reasons Why Beer is Preffered More Than Sex", "Top 10 reasons Why Chocolate is Finer Than Sex" and so on.

Sex beats just about anything. I would rather have a nice romantic evening with my husband, than sit around and eat a box of chocolate, drink beer and go to sleep.

Here is my new "Top 10 List."

"Top 10 Reasons Sex Kicks Butt on Candy, Flowers and Beer."

1. If someone yells during sex, you are doing it right.

2. Sex gives you nice memories, beer makes everything hazy.

3. When things get hot, chocolate gets soft.

4. You don't have to worry about choosing which kind of sex.

5. When you get great sex, you don't have to pass it around.

6. Sex is a "hands on" experience.

7. Sex is free. (Usually)

8. Lousy sex is finer than a lousy candy.

9. Sex created the need for lingerie ... chocolate the need for control top pantyhose.

10. Sex makes your fingers smell sweeter when you are done.

Sometimes Sweetie needs a little prodding. A reminder that life is not all work and no play. We all need a little lovin'. A quick little smile and the wink of an eye is usually enough to get your lover's attention. You don't have to hit them over the head with a bedpost.

Valentine's Day gifts, birthday presents, Christmas gift, whatever holiday or occasion ... forget the candy, flowers and beer ... get Sweetie to hit the sack with you.

Sex educator, speaker, editor and blogger Jani, is the author of “The G-gasm Method: The Ultimate Guide to the G-spot Orgasm” - and “Tonight's The Night ... Your Ultimate Guide to Sexy, Kinky Things to do With Your Lover” available at .

Thanks ... enjoy!