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I hear people in relationships say all of the time, 'I don't want to play mind games.' The reality of it is that men and women are constantly testing each other to see whether the partner they chose is the correct one. Everyone is playing games with their partner or ex whether you know it or not.

Here are the 8 classic mistakes when trying to get your ex back:

1. Being too nice.

The old classic 'good guys (or girls) always finish last' is so true. You cannot simply go along with everything your partner says just for an easy life. A bit of conflict can make things interesting and exciting, otherwise the relationship will be boring. If you want a spark in your relationship, always remember a spark is created through friction.

2. Using logic to persuade your ex to come back.

You can never use logic to try and persuade your ex to come back. You can get yourself out of a relationship through logic but not when you're the one that's been dumped. An ex's heart is not logical, you cannot convince his/her heart to love you- emotions do not work logically.

3. Being a human doormat

I've seen so many people plead with their ex's. 'Please stay, I will do anything for you to stay.' Fight the urge and do not do it. They will end up losing all respect for you. Never beg for someone to take you back.

4. Giving your ex gifts and flowers.

You can never buy love. Or in this case buy Your Ex Back. Flowers can be a great way to say thank you or I love you but never a good idea for getting your ex back. Do not do it.

5. Declaring your love for them every 2 minutes.

This may be the first thing that comes to your mind. 'Tell her how much I love her and she will come back to me.' This is so wrong, it doesn't work like that. Smothering them with affection and love will only repel them at this stage.

6. Missing what attracts them to you.

You need to learn what attracted you to your ex in the first place. Men are usually attracted to a woman's appearance while women are normally attracted to a man's personality and looks take a back seat. Learn what turns your ex on and use that to your advantage.

7. Showing weakness.

Don't let them think that your life will be over once you split. This will give your ex all the power and make you look weak and feeble and that is not an attractive look. If you want to pull your ex back then you must keep their respect.

8. Not getting help

Going through a breakup is a very difficult time. I hope you have learnt not to make some of the most common mistakes outlined above. Most people make mistakes at this time. There is a right and wrong way to . If you take the time to learn some of the psychology of human behavior and what people want from a partner you can use certain techniques to manipulate that in your favor- you can regain control.

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