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When you experience a breakup with your girlfriend and suddenly realize ending the relationship isn't what you want, it quickly becomes apparent that getting her back may be a difficult task. In most cases, it's much more difficult then simply saying, "I'm sorry."

If you've split from your ex girlfriend and are desperately trying to win her over again, then reading to the end of this article will help you identify 3 possible reasons she still won't take you back.

3 Possible Reasons Your Ex Girlfriend Is Avoiding You Like The Plague

1.) You're Pushing Too Hard And Making Her Feel Pressured

After a breakup, a feeling of desperation sets in and you'll often feel rushed to do something quick to get your ex girlfriend back before you lose her for good. This desperation often causes you to push too hard and can leave your girlfriend feeling pressured. Here are some signs you need to pull back and give her some space.

You find yourself repeatedly texting her and/or calling her even when she is ignoring you or telling you to leave her alone. You find yourself begging and pleading for another chance. You find yourself repeatedly apologizing for things you've done wrong in the relationship. You constantly question your ex girlfriend about how she feels and why she left. You're telling your ex all the ways you're going to change and how things will be different if she'll just take you back. You're buying gifts and flowers to get on her good side again.

2.) You're Revealing Your Negative Traits, Including Your Jealous Nature

Your ex girlfriend may not be taking you back because your actions may be indicating negative traits which actually confirm to her that breaking up was the right thing to do. If you're doing any of the following, you've probably got her on the run.

You find yourself stalking her. This can include things like showing up at her house, showing up at her work, or driving by her place at night to see if anyone else is over there. You find yourself asking other people about her. For example, you might question her family members or mutual friends about what she's thinking and feeling. You blow up and get angry whenever you see her or try to work things out. You check her Facebook and MySpace pages to try and find out who she's been talking to. You say mean and hurtful things to her or do things to make her feel bad as a way of seeking revenge. You try to interfere with her life. For example, trying to step in her way of dating another man.

3.) You're Not Allowing Her To Miss You

If you want your ex girlfriend to take you back, then she'll need to miss you. She needs to remember why she dated you in the first place. Not allowing her to miss you can be a huge roadblock to getting her back. These signs can help you determine if this is keeping you from repairing your relationship.

You immediately respond to texts, emails, or phone calls from her. You rush over to see her every time she says she's feeling down or lonely. You try to set up situations to see her "just as friends". You're too available and drop everything you're doing the second she needs you for something. You're not living your life and find yourself staying home hoping to hear from her rather than going out with friends or meeting new people.

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