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Don't be a dumped boyfriend who does everything wrong like Fred did. Tracie his girlfriend could not join him at a party which he so much wanted to go to. He went anyway and, as he did not want to feel on his own, he picked up another of the girls there. Tracie's friends were bursting to tell her all about it. Tracie was furious. She lost no time calling Fred to say she never wanted to see him again.

Fred was very upset at this outcome. He knew he had behaved rather badly but didn't think that what he had done was a good reason for ending his relationship with Tracie.

He decided he was going to win Tracie back but as he didn't know how to go about it properly, he did everything wrong.

Rather than starting by apologizing and moving forward Fred went to see Tracie, imploring her to take him back. Tracie was furious and she had every right to be and she kicked him out.

Fred was still not put off and pestered Tracie with a myriad of emails that he sent all hours of the day and night. He didn't leave her alone for a moment. He sent her some flowers but Tracie refused to accept them. One night, he decided to go and sing her some love songs underneath her bedroom windows and he woke up some of her neighbors who called the police.

Fred did not understand that Tracie needed some time and space to decide if she wanted to continue the relationship.

Furious at his lack of success, Fred then started taking other girls out and he мейд sure that Tracie saw what he was doing. Fred knew that Tracie had a friend called Susie who was never very lucky finding a companion, so he decided to invite Susie out, as he was sure this would make Tracie jealous.

But Tracie wasn't jealous at all- she was simply furious. She felt that Fred was taking advantage of Susie just to get his own back on her. She also was upset that Susie had fallen for Fred's little game.

Tracie in the mean time started dating another friend and Fred joked about her new conquest by saying he did not compare with himself. This was the ultimate end for Tracie who decided to move on and leave Fred for ever.

Yet things could have worked out far differently and the relationship could likely have been recovered. Tracie would have likely excused Fred for what he had done if he had apologized in the first place. Behaving as he did, he ruined all his chances of getting Tracie back

The moral of this story is that if you are a dumped boyfriend, don't behave like Fred.

Joe Bisley

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Joe Bisley writes articles about human relationship problems